Fellowship with Men
Heaven (乾 Qián) above, Fire (離 Lí) below
Published July 22, 2026 · By Oriens
I Ching Hexagram 13, 同人 (Tóng Rén), represents Fellowship with Men. Formed by Heaven (乾 Qián) above, Fire (離 Lí) below, this hexagram teaches about fellowship with men. The core message: Fellowship with Men in the open. Success. It furthers one to cross the great water. The perseverance of the superior man furthers..
Key Takeaways- Hexagram 13 is formed by Heaven (乾 Qián) above, Fire (離 Lí) below, combining two of the eight trigrams into a unique archetypal situation
- The Judgment reveals the hexagram's core teaching through a concise, oracular statement
- The six lines trace a progression from initial conditions through to the culmination and outcome
- The Image connects the natural symbolism of the trigrams to the conduct of the superior person
- This hexagram's wisdom applies to modern situations involving
The Judgment
— I Ching, Fellowship with MenFellowship with Men in the open. Success. It furthers one to cross the great water. The perseverance of the superior man furthers.
The Image
— I Ching, ImageHeaven together with fire: the image of Fellowship with Men. Thus the superior man organizes the clans and makes distinctions between things.
The Six Lines
Line 1: Line 1: Fellowship with men at the gate. No blame.
Line 2: Line 2: Fellowship with men in the clan. Humiliation.
Line 3: Line 3: The superior man hides weapons in the thicket; he climbs the high hill and for three years does not rise up.
Line 4: Line 4: He mounts his wall; he cannot attack. Good fortune.
Line 5: Line 5: Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament, but afterward they laugh. After great struggles they succeed in meeting.
Line 6: Line 6: Fellowship with men in the meadow. No remorse.
Modern Application
Hexagram 13 is about authentic community. True fellowship cannot be forced or exclusive — it must be 'in the open,' accessible to all who share common purpose. The hexagram warns against cliquishness (fellowship confined to one's clan) and the isolating effects of conflict. The deepest fellowships often emerge after shared struggle (Line 5). In modern terms, this hexagram speaks to building inclusive communities, collaborative work cultures, and relationships based on shared values rather than tribal identity.
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